Thursday, March 24, 2011

You Have Got To Be Kidding Me!

The lights have gone down. The movie has started or the actors are taking the stage. Cue the cell phones, candy wrappers and talkative latecomers and like me, you'll be thinking to yourself, "You Have Got To Be Kidding Me!"

Most people turn their cell phones off, open their candy as quietly as possible and plunk their buttocks in their seats before the show starts. Some people don't. Those people remain anonymous until they too venture out to the theater. A courteous society often wonders if some less than courteous people realize how rude they can be.

"I know people who are well-aware that they are being rude and just shrug their shoulders about it and say that's just who they are." Says Sarah Wesley, Staff Writer for Hartford Magazine, who is writing an article for the magazine on manners and courtesy.

Ms. Wesley and some of her colleagues were recently at Playhouse on Park to take a picture that will accompany the article. She selected Playhouse on Park because she did an article about us for Hartford Magazine several months ago and discovered that we're "So very nice and accommodating." Aww shucks (blushing)

"I thought the location would be perfect for the photo shoot we were doing for our upcoming article on manners and courtesy." Says Wesley of her choice of Playhouse on Park.

Wesley speaks of her inspiration for writing the article, "Several years ago my family and I attended a performance of the Nutcracker in Boston. The people who sat behind us talked through the whole thing and it ruined the whole experience. I was so upset at how someone could be so inconsiderate, especially when we paid so much for the tickets and couldn't wait to bring our daughters to see the ballet. It was after that, that the idea for the article took shape."

The cost of entertainment over the past several years has only gone up. In today's economy many people have scaled back their entertainment dollars. People spend their money to hear the actors speak, not the audience. With all due respect, no one cares about "Aunt Gertie" and her atrocious behavior at the family reunion.

So why has society become less polite? " I spoke to a sociologist about this very question and he told me that it was in part because we'd moved away from being a society that did things to benefit the greater good of the group to a more individualistic-minded one. I agree with him." Says Wesley. She continued by saying "I think everyone is very caught up in what is important to them and sometimes they forget that their actions have an impact on other people."

Most people won't speak up, they just grin and bear it. "I honestly don't think confronting someone about their behavior makes any difference so instead I just try to kill 'em with kindness in hopes that leading by example might help. Sometimes it works and sometimes I just end up frustrated." Wesley confesses.

Of course it's not a good idea for people to keep their frustrations bottled up, so the car ride home can be used to stand up to that obnoxious person. Your fellow theater-goers will likely find your ranting very funny and may add their own interpretation. Such an exercise should make you feel better, because you're not likely to enlighten the rude people. "I'm not sure we can." Wesley admits and provides some helpful advice. "I think we need to encourage the next generation to make better choices."

Great advice, then perhaps one day instead of saying "You Have Got To Be Kidding Me!" we'll all be saying "God bless us everyone!"

Keep an eye out for Sarah Wesley's insightful article on manners and courtesy in an upcoming issue of Hartford Magazine.










Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Crazy Day at the Playhouse

A photo shoot for an article to appear in Hartford Magazine. EQuilibrium rehearsing for their upcoming show and a fire. More on the photo shoot and Equilibrium later, but first the fire.

The mild aroma of smoke in the Playhouse graduated to a scary matter as the aroma became more prevalent. Master Electrician Tim Hache and I began to search the Playhouse and the neighboring ice cream plant for the source of the smoke. A light haze quickly gave way to a thick cloud of smoke in the ice cream plant. We decided it was time to call the fire department. Tim and I made our way back down to the theater and informed Executive Director, Tracy Flater of the situation.


Scurrying back to the box office, I dialed 9-1-1. I told the operator that we were having a smoke emergency. She instructed me to pull the fire alarm, even described to me what it looked like, thanks lady. I made my way to the fire alarm, telling Tracy what the 9-1-1 operator had told me. Tracy was reluctant to pull the alarm and asked if I would do it. I mustered up the courage and pulled the alarm, much to Tim's dismay. He really wanted to do it. Sorry Tim...Not.


A few minutes later, four fire trucks and three police cruisers and an ambulance populated Park Road. Firefighters raced towards the building, hoses in hand. Playhouse staff and visitors that had congregated outside the Playhouse were ushered away from the front of the building. A.C. Petersen's was evacuated as a precaution.


So there we all stood out in the chilly afternoon air watching the drama unfold and seeing our Park Road neighbors outside their establishments looking on. About an hour later we were given the all clear to go back in. Our fire alarm was reset and we were back in business. The cause of the fire was an old computer in the ice cream plant. There was was no damage and no injuries, just a bit of exciting news to share with family and friends.

"A typical day gets turned upside down at least once." Tracy said of the day's event. "There's always drama at the Playhouse." she added. I concur. In my opinion a good theater is one that provides drama on and off the stage. The events of today sure prove that.

Speaking of on stage drama, next up here at Playhouse on Park is EQuilibrium Dance Theater presents "The Settlement" Artistic Director of the EQuilibrium Dance Theater, Jolet Creary describes the show as "A great combination of stories that are relevant to our times and through our eyes. Taking the idea of hip hop to a new level. Not just dancing but bringing art to it."


EQuilibrium Presents "The Settlement" plays at Playhouse on Park Thursday, March 24 at 7:30pm. Friday, March 25 at 8:00pm. Saturday, March 26 at 8:00pm and Sunday, March 27 at 2:00pm. Tickets range from $17.50 to $22.50 for adult tickets and can be purchased by calling our box office at 860-523-5900 x 10 or online at www.playhouseonpark.org.


Check out an upcoming issue of Hartford Magazine for an article about a lack of politeness in movie theaters and other places. The picture with the article was taken here at the Playhouse. More about about that in an upcoming post.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

March Madness

I'll bet you think March Madness is all about basketball. Nope, not even close. March Madness is a term that will be applied to people who miss Playhouse on Park's current production of The Scarlet Letter. If you're mad because you thought I was going to talk about basketball, come talk to me, I'll be at the corner of Get Over It Street and Cry Me A River Avenue.

Why watch a bunch of guys trying to put a ball in a hoop? You could be watching a talented cast of actors in a slam dunk performance of The Scarlet Letter. The story centers on beautiful Hester Prynne and her affair with a prominent man in town. Young Hester is forced to wear the scarlet letter "A" on her bosom, which stands for adultery. Throw in a love child, A husband back from the dead, overwhelming guilt and the relentless pressure from the townsfolk to learn the identity of Hester's lover and you've got two hours of nothing but net!

There are just four more performances of the Scarlet Letter: Thursday, March 17th at 7:30pm. Friday, March 18th at 8:00pm. Saturday, March 19th at 8:00pm. Sunday, March 20th at 2:00pm. Call the box office, 860-523-5900 x 10 for tickets or purchase them online at http://www.playhouseonpark.org/. So avoid March Madness and come see The Scarlet Letter.

In closing I'd just like to say there's no bosoms in basketball. Swish!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The Blog is Back

Good thing you weren't holding your breath, because 232 days is a long time to hold it. I promise never to keep you waiting that long again. Now that I've made that official proclamation, you're probably wondering who I am. My name is James. I am a steadfast volunteer here at Playhouse on Park. My mission is to quench your insatiable appetite for all things about Playhouse on Park. Your mission is to satisfy said appetite with regular visits to our website and blog. I'll provide you with enough tasty morsels to satisfy your hunger, temporarily. You'll want to come back for more and when you do, bring a big plate and loose pants, because I'll be serving up a buffet of Playhouse morsels. The blog is back baby!